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If you have a sister or friend that has just become engaged and has asked
you to help with the wedding shower, although there is work involved, you
are in for a great experience. Since this person is close to you and
someone very special, you want to make her wedding shower an extra special
occasion. To begin, you need to determine if the shower will be something
the bride is fully aware of or if this is going to be a surprise shower.
Having a surprise, wedding shower is not an impossible task but it will
take some extra work. If you have other individuals that can assist, then
you could pull it off with no trouble. Since the bride is someone that you
know well, you will have the opportunity of creating a shower around the
things she loves and enjoys.
During the time that the wedding is being planned, schedules are going to
be tight so you will have to work with the bride's family and other friends
to determine the best time. If the bride is involved with the planning,
then some of the challenges of time are eliminated. If the bride or groom's
family is from out of town, you will need to host the wedding shower shortly
before the wedding so that they can attend. If everyone lives close, then
you have a little more leeway on time. Most people think of wedding showers
being held on a Friday or Saturday night when in fact, any evening would work
fine.
Once the date and time have been established, then you want to make the
guest list, which would include family members of the bride and groom,
friends, and co-workers. If the bride's side of the family will have
one shower and the grooms another, then only invite people directly
connected to the bride. Otherwise, both sides for the bride and groom
would be invited. Just remember that all of the names on the wedding
shower invitee list should also be on the wedding invitee list. After
the list is complete, determine the budget, which will in turn determine
what activities, food, and drink you can provide.
Depending on your budget, you can choose from food, drinks, party
decorations, a cake, small gifts, and so on. If you want food involved
more than just appetizers, you can always host the wedding shower at a
local restaurant or in someone's home. If the couple were on a tight
budget, it would be perfectly acceptable to ask each guest to bring a
covered dish, if they can. This will allow everyone to participate in
the planning and take a huge load of time and money away from you. Once
you know the types of things you can provide based on the budget, you need
to order or create wedding shower invitations. These should go out at least
three weeks prior to the shower, and a little sooner for those people living
out of town. To have a successful wedding shower, you need to keep good
records of the number of people invited and accepted. Just remember that
this is something special for someone very close to you. Use her favorite
colors, foods, and music, and this will turn out to be a memorable day.
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