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Everything for your upcoming wedding has been taken care of. The rings are purchased, the chapel and minister selected, flowers ordered, and so on. Finally, after a tremendous amount of effort, everything is in its proper place, or so you think. Unfortunately, many grooms do not feel the same way about the big, elaborate wedding as the bride. This is something that happens all the time. The bride wants the glamour, the sophistication, the absolute fairytale wedding. However, if you were to pull the groom aside where he would not be overheard, more than likely, you would hear him say that he does not really care much about the wedding. It is not so much that he is not interested in a fancy wedding that takes months and months to plan; he just wants to be married and get on with life. Do not read this as being uncaring or uninterested. He is very interested -the formalities are what he could do without experiencing.

When this happens, the bride is likely to perceive his opinion as him not caring or loving her. This is not at all true. The groom could be uninterested for a number of reasons. In truth, men in today's society are pulled away from being involved in weddings. If you were to pick up any number of wedding magazines, you would find an occasional article where the groom handled some of the wedding plans. For some reason, it seems as though the bride is responsible for the wedding. She pulls in her mother, sisters, future mother-in-law, future sister-in-laws, and so on but seldom do you read where she pulled the groom, the father, and the future father-in-law into the planning.

Planning weddings simply touches on the areas that a woman is more knowledgeable and talented in. Consider that the groom might feel a little uncomfortable. Because of him feeling this way, he may have concerns that anything he touches will be ruined. In fact, it is likely that the groom feels the bride is capable of making better choices. If you want your future, groom to be more involved with the wedding start by talking to him. Determine the reasons he does not want to participate and then see if the two of you can come up with a nice compromise. If he agrees that he will try to get more involved, decide on things that would be of interest to him. Perhaps he loves music. Therefore, choosing the band or DJ would be something he cold handle. You should also make his responsibilities less intimidating.

After you have come up with some things he can be involved with, help him out by making a list of items specific to that task. For example, if he is going to hire the band, create a list that has everything he needs to do for that job. This list might include listen to bands, negotiate price, set up date and time, contract, and so on. This will make your future husband feel more comfortable, which then makes everyone is happy.

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