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Falling in love is a beautiful thing and when the time comes to pop the
big question, you want to present your future bride with an incredible
engagement ring. One of the biggest struggles you may be faced with is
how to ask her to marry you. Your mind may be filled with all types of
unique ideas but every time you practice the words, you get nervous and
it all comes out wrong. Do not feel alone. Becoming engaged is an
important step in life and you should be nervous. This is the time to
follow the heart and be creative with your proposal.
When planning an engagement, there are many things to take into consideration.
First, you want to think about a proposal that will be special to her. Think
about the things that are important to her. Is there a type of hobby, sporting
event, something that she holds near and dear to her heart? If so, you can
build on this. For example, if she loves going to football games, have the
proposal display on the big screen. Perhaps she loves the ocean and the sound
of the waves. In this case, take a soft blanket at sunset to the beach, light
a bonfire, and as the two of you watch the sun set below the horizon, ask her
to marry you. If the two of you met somewhere special such as a park, local
ice cream shop, or wherever the place may be, take her back to the beginning
to pop the question. You can easily incorporate anything that she loves into
the proposal, which will show her that you took time to make this event extra
special.
A happy relationship goes well beyond the immediate excitement of becoming
engaged. The engagement is just the start to many exciting and romantic
adventures that the two of you will share in life. You want to start your
life together the right way by proposing in a way that will touch her heart.
The traditional proposal is where the future groom kneels down on one knee
and requests the future bride to marry him. Of course, this is after he has
asked for her hand in marriage from the father. While this is exceptionally
romantic and something to give serious consideration to, keep your options
open. Think of style, creativity, and something she would never expect.
If the two of you have not talked about engagement rings or even shopped for
one together, you will want to try to take another ring that she wears with
you to the jewelry store to ensure you purchase the correct size. This would
be the optimum situation, but keep in mind that if the ring is a surprise and
you find it is either too small or too large, it can always be resized.
Once you have become engaged, there are many things to accomplish for the
wedding. Some people are engaged for years while others get married in
months. If you are not in a hurry and want a traditional church wedding of
medium to large size, you will need approximately 10 to 12 months to plan.
Start by telling family and friends of the engagement, if they do not know.
Next, you will need to choose a date on which you can build. Have an
engagement photograph taken that will be published in your local paper,
announcing publicly your engagement. A nice touch would be to take time to
write each other's parents and tell them how excited you are to be marrying
their child. This will certainly put you in their good graces. You will
start deciding on colors, attendants, invitations, menu, and all the other
aspects of the wedding. This is a big process so pace yourself and enjoy
the adventure.
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